violadad

Along the way, you will find people that will open doors for you, some that will hand you a map and expect you to figure out north from south, a few will point you in the wrong direction. Occasionally, a few may even place man traps and mines along your path.

I, like thumper, am puzzled. Is this instructor not working in your best interest? What you perceive as "making big decisions for me" may be the quickest or most effective means to your end.

Or, are they telling you things you don't necessarily want to hear?

On the other hand, if these choices run contrary to your ultimate goals, you have to voice your reservations and concerns.

Having a teacher/performer of high stature, and thus able to provide insights many students never get is normally a very significant plus in your development.