| hmmm the reason why i asked is because i recently hung out with a girl i'm interested in at a party. i honestly don't know her all too well but we are in the friends stage right now and i have a feeling that the relationship could easily progress past that.
anyways, to keep it simple, i was pretty surprised at the party because she did a bong hit and was like, "get me some BEER!" to one of her friends lol. she didn't get hella drunk or high or anything like that. i was just caught off guard and i found myself less attracted to her but i'm starting to feel that reaction is a little immature and that i was judging simply because i don't do those things (parents would KILL me if i ever got caught lol).
personally, i think i should just get over it since i don't think she is irresponsible with drinking/etc. however, i am curious as to how others would deal with this situation... |