| "It is a matter of tolerance and kindness." [to not judge drug users]
I don't agree at all. "Judging" has essentially nothing to do with telling people how to life their life. It has everything to do with "oh, ok, this person snorts crack. They are making a bad decision and I am not going to willingly hang out with people who also snort crack because then I might choose to make such a bad decision."
I can be tolerant and kind and still judge my peers for their bad decisions. By judging them, it doesn't mean I am necessarily condoning them to their face, but just noting in my mind that they are acting dumb. Sorry to any hardcore drug users, but using drugs is simply that; a bad, stupid decision. Disagree with me all you want :P
People can do what they want with themselves, and I'd never "rat" them out persay. But I can certainly judge them in my mind how I please, based off their choices only |