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Old 02-23-2008, 05:16 PM   #24
innovator
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Lost in tranlat, like many on this thread my advice will be to let her come home. What you and your family are going through is very hard.

As a person who once went through a similar situation, I feel it is in the best interest of everyone she be allowed to come home. It took me years to accept and let go my guilt that I did not take the right decision to go see my mother before I lost her to cancer one spring. Until I did, I had this constant anger against those who adviced me to wait a few months until summer.

It looks like even if you keep in touch with her, it is not going to help her to concentrate on school work. Look into the school rules to see how she can take an incomplete this semester and then come back to finish it later. If withdrawing this semester causes financial strain now, it can be resolved.

Your daughter needs a hug and you need it too from her. Take care. My prayers are with you.
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