| Yes I do need to vent and am incredibly grateful for your presence on this forum as well as advice. D's advisor wrote back a very insightful mail about D. In his opinion, it was the right choice to send her back from college. He says that she is/will be getting help not only from professionals but also from her peers, and that he is keeping a close eye on her. He told me that one of her fears was of losing her merit scholarship and that he has managed to set her mind at rest on that subject, and all her profs have told her that she can have extra time if needed for assignments.
As many of you have said, the most important (and difficult for me) is to come to terms with the fact that this is not a time for thinking or planning ahead, but just trying to get through each moment as it comes. I've made sure that D has enough money to get a plane ticket, and she knows that if she needs to come back, for whatever reason, she will be welcomed home. |