I'm delighted to report that my D has reached her final decision. She has decided on Muhlenberg College. It has a perfect mix of academics and a fantastic theater dept. She'll be able to pursue her academic interests to a degree she wouldn't otherwise in most of these other programs (with the possible exception of one other school that she opted not to apply to at the last minute for unrelated reasons
Their obvious commitment to the performing arts is impressive, and they (both admissions and the head of the theater dept) have done a wonderful job of making her feel personally valued, wanted and appreciated.
Many thanks and hugs to my caring friends that I've met through CC, especially mesmom, and jacksdad, but many others as well, including those of you who wrote me to express support for me and indignation over a recent minor CC "controversy." My best wishes.