| Sky Girl, I rarely weigh in on please help me make up my mind threads but Berea is the golden ticket. Your mother will survive without you and ultimately you will be better able to help meet her needs as a well-educated college graduate. There's nothing wrong with Ramapo either but I don't think they could provide you with the personalized support you would get at Berea. Parents frequently have to use tough love, you need to use that with your mother right now. I fear if you stay home and go to CC she will only become more needy and eventually you'll end up missing class because she's upset. |