| It seems everyone is telling you to break off the engagement in various ways. Do that, ASAP. If you are "meant for each other" you will get back together, older, wiser, more mature. If you continue being engaged and stressed out you are not in the right relationship at the right time. Do not worry about what other people, families and she will think- do not feel pressured to stay engaged. The reason an engagement is not a legal entity is so you can exit it without repercussions. Thank goodness you found out before marriage. You do not owe this person marriage because you once thought you were right together, you would be compounding an error. Good luck. |