| Spoken as someone who has broken TWO engagements (I got it right the third time and have been married for 26 years), the first one when I was in college--LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!!! This is often very hard for young people to do, because you don't trust that feeling and you second guess yourself.
As others have said, getting divorced is MUCH harder than breaking off an engagement. Visualize how relieved you will be after you have done it--and done it the right way, as others have suggested--and you will reinforce your gut feeling of the necessity to break things off.
Good luck to you--and let us know what happens. |