| Something that struck me is that your daughter is actually doing the bf a favor. A year is long time, what would happen if he decided not to go into his current dream school or if is not accepted there? The chance that they will break up before fall of 2009 is also pretty good, and that's probably a fear in the back of your daughters mind too but not something she can rationally get mad about. I think it would be great if you can somehow get her to revisit the stretch school to remind her why she first applied. |