I know, I have been working on a long letter that I am going to send to his dr. His front office staff are idiots ( really, I don't know who does the hiring but they change every month), so I know I can't just leave a message.
I resent having to behave like his mother and since I am in charge of monitoring everyone elses health ( including the recently deceased cats and the elderly dog) Im sure you understand why I don't feel responsible for him too.
I do give him articles to read, etc, because I thought that would be more helpful, also try to "lead by example" but he doesn't really pay attention
Having problems with the wording of the letter though, cause I want it to illustrate the concerns, not just sound like I am nagging.