| spindrift - let the decision be based on what he (and his family) want, not on "giving up the spot to someone who is more sure".
Pomona thinks he'd be a good match. They don't do that lightly. So he/you get to decide on the merits and what your gut feels about the two.
I say this a parent who just went through the same sort of thing with my daughter, who was deciding between Scripps and a large city university. They were both great, in very different ways. BTW - she decided last night to go to Scripps, so I'm feeling a great sense of relief today, that a decision has been made. |