| What works best for us is that making a spread sheet on money available (529, savings and scholarship etc). We even included the amount available from not paying for the after school care, and not paying for music classes etc for siblings. When they see the numbers they will understand. Then you could come up with a plan that works for you family.
In a way having four kids is good... by the time the last one goes to college the older ones who are out of college can pitch in. |