| It's undeniable that poor people get the short end of the stick. In addition to financial obstacles, I think a lot of poor students have to face cultural and social issues as well. For example, I knew a hard-working classmate in high school whose parents frequently discouraged going to college, since they didn't want to pay for it and didn't really see the value in it.
But I wouldn't consider the OP disadvantaged. Unless you're below the poverty line, admission to top schools is reasonably attainable for most intelligent and motivated people. You can easily study for the SAT by borrowing books, and youth leadership conferences do jack for you anyway.
It's great that you're saving up for a car. My parents don't want me to drive because they don't want me to wreck our only car or spend any more money on gas or insurance. It's bad because there's nothing around my house within walking distance. Maybe I'll look into getting one if I get a high-paying job/internship next summer. |