Thanks to everyone for the kinds words and advice. I have started a list of safety's from your recommendations for her to research. She knows that is where her focus needs to be now.
Now to get through this week. The Spring play starts performances this weekend and they have rehearsals scheduled right after school until around 9:30 EVERY night. She did get home around 8:00 tonight and was pretty happy about that
At least they feed them lol