>>Forgive me for responding to the OP without reading the subsequent replies.<<
The Korean situation is quite complex.
For anyone with serious interest, here's a graduate thesis on the topic. The title alone is suggestive. It's called "The Diaspora of Korean Children: A Cross-Cultural Study of the Educational Crisis in Contemporary South Korea." It's available online at
http://etd.lib.umt.edu/theses/availa...i-umt-1058.pdf
That's right (IMO): Korea faces an educational crisis.
I work with these kids, and I find their effort heroic and inspirational. (Yay, Korean high schoolers!) Many of them are also quite brilliant. It's truly a privilege.
At the same time, the pressure on them to succeed is clearly excessive.
But the fault is not with the parents; instead, both children and parents are at the mercy of a broken system.
I wonder if the same could be said of our system?