| I agree with Collegemom. Apologize, apologize, apologize. Be sincere. Explain that you know you were wrong; you are sorry for your lack of integrity and disappointed in yourself; you are sorry that you let her--one of your favorite teachers--down; it was a stupid, spur of the moment action (but you do realize how serious of an offense it is); you will never do anything like that again; you regret your actions not only because of the possible consequences (damaged relationship with teacher, possible suspension, etc.) and because you feel personally ashamed; etc. You can write her a letter as well as apologize in person. This also helps if your principle does want to suspend you; a prompt, personal, honest apology on paper is a great thing to have on your side. Whatever you do, do not argue with the charges, do not argue with suspension (further, recognize that you deserve the punishment), do not make up excuses.
x-posted with Soozievt. I also agree with her that you should think about why you changed your grade. Even though it was a stupid, thoughtless mistake, it's not an action that even should have been in your thought process. Talk it over with your parents and/or guidance counselor if that would help you. |