| B and P, agree with your characterization of pain. Additionally, I think it would be equally painful, maybe more so, to find out that the person you thought wanted to be with you was hiding who she was in a sham marriage for 25 years. I feel bad for both parties, which is one reason to support equal treatment of gays and gay marriage, so that everyone can know that they are in the relationship both they and their partners want on the deepest level. |