| janet,
Thanks for the reply. So, if they say "engaged" (to a person of same gender) as a joke, do I take it that the person posting that on a profile is not gay? Or is this an attempt to "keep people guessing?" Or, are they, in the passage of adolescence & college in particular, "experimenting" online merely by talking about it -- to get a reaction, for example? Or to question out loud their sexual identity? (And indicate they might want to try it as a 'lifestyle'?)
Which is it?
'Fear of people finding out' about what: gay orientation?
(P.S. The part about leaving the past behind & entering on a new journey I totally relate to & understand.) |