| by jr and sr year of HS i had a very tight core group of 14 people (7 guys, 7 girls).. one year later im very happy to say that im just as close and even closer with some of them. most of us go to different colleges along the east coast ranging from NC to Boston. next week (our first week back) most of us and some of our other friends (but not as close) from HS are renting a house in upstate NY for 4 days. i went home this weekend to go see a concert with a couple of my best friends.
we were acutally talking in the car how we think its crazy when people say they arent close to their HS friends anymore. maybe its just us but our bond i would like to think is vitually indestrusticable. we all love college and have friends and fun there.. but when we come back its like nothings ever changed. i jsut dont understand how people can say theyre closer with people in 9 months than people you were close with for 4+ years.
my cousin (who is a HS sr right now) had a really good comment on this. she said everyone has a group of HS friends and college friends, and you can be close to both of them. but there will always be one roup that you think of being your best friends and people you would rather be with. for me, i think it will always be them.
besides for them i tlak to like 2 other people while im at school. then at home we always have parties with our old "affiliates" from HS. wow.. this was really long and hard to understand. guess its hard to explain it to other people. hahah we do awlays say "outsiders" jsut dont understand |