| If your parents are encouraging you to go to NYU, then they have probably assessed the financial situation and have agreed that it is something they are able to do. In this case, I think you should allow your parents to be the parents and trust them. Many times children need to take on the adult burdens because of their personal situations. In your case, though, I think you can let them worry about the money. New York is a wonderful city. I live in New York and I am in my mid-50s and I don't think I will ever burn out on it. It is a safe, beautiful, vibrant, interesting etc. etc. etc. place. NYU is a wonderful school and it sounds like your heart wants to be there. Follow your parents' advice. However, if there is something else holding you back, then you have to be honest with yourself. No matter how great an opportunity is, if you don't feel very happy and comfortable with it, then it will not be right for you. |