| Ok. Well, we were together for 4 years. He asked me out on the last day of school in 8th grade and we dated until October of my freshman year of college. A part of me had been telling me to end it but I didn't listen because he was my best friend and I didn't want to hurt him. Shortly after I got to school I met a guy who immediatly started flirting with me. I told him that I had a boyfriend and he said that he would never try to mess with anything as serious as a 4 year relationship. So I hung out with this guy as just friends but after a while I started having feelings for him. You have no idea how hard it is to tell your boyfriend of 4 years who wanted to marry you, etc. that you have feelings for someone else. We haven't spoken since then and things with this other guy didn't work out because he ended being a huge jerk. I also didn't go to any parties until my 2nd semester because of him and I think cheating is extremely low so that is how I knew I had to end it. |