As for your question which university to attend... Well, there are over 1,000 accredited undergraduate colleges in the US that offer pre-med. I think you have to narrow that list down yourself.
Collegeboard has a college search engine that might help you in the process. It lets you pick the desired location, size and selectivity of your college, your major, the range of tuition fees you are willing to consider, and even whether or not on-campus housing is available or guaranteed.
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