| Deb, may I suggest something that I told my son: "I'll give you one free visit. If you need me, I'll be there, don't worry about the distance, time involved or the cost."
This was recommended to me by a friend with college aged sons. None of our kids has used this free pass, but it made all of us feel much better to know that it was an option. Once the freshman year started, they were very busy and happy with all their activities.
It takes us 25 hours, at the least, to get from our airport in Asia to S's state, but I would go, if he asked me to. |