debbs,
In post #41 you wrote “We will sign W&M unless Notre Dame gives us a letter of intent by the 12th”
In post #43 you wrote “don't you think getting into Notre Dame would be a reason to have pause on signing the ED?”
That's what made me think you were trying to game the system. I do apologize for my tone, and I hope you and your son are happy with the college choice you make. I wish you luck, and I mean that sincerely.