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Funny, I'd say it's 180 deg ...i.e. one's discomfort level that's most important.
More specifically, the most important factor is that which one projects may correlate with whatever enables, empowers, facilitates, etc. an individual's greatest growth which connotes with "change." So that means it will be different things for different persons.
Sadly, way too many do precisely what Banana implies ...making their top choice that place where they feel most comfy, at ease, coincident.
The partnering, all important question is really, how much do I desire to grow, stretch, become more of or different from he/she who I am.
But reality is often driven by where I will feel most comfortable, at ease, like the others there.
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