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I think this story is pretty tragic even if the son is managing to make his way for the moment. The fact is that this kid is an addict--a poker addict. And like all addictions, his gambling addiction will most likely lead to great heartache down the line for him and also for his family.
Just because this kid is making money from his addiction does not make it a positive thing. You can make money from lots of illegal and unethical and addictive things. The money does not in and of itself justify the behavior.
I would never just cut my kid loose or "let him go" if he were suffering from this type of addiction (and had given up his education and his sport for it). In fact, I would continue to try to support him and encourage him into a recovery program.
I know these young gamblers think they are invincible and that their "skills" will always put them on top. But the sad truth is that it could all fall through in an instant, and this is no way to work toward a solid, stable life. All in all, a very sad story, especially if the mother settles for justifying this damaging behavior or believing the kid's rationalizations for his addiction.
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