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having sex with more than one person before marriage causes comparison--disappointment if your spouse doesn't live up to someone else in the past in that area
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You're right, it does cause comparison, but someone who's having pre-marital sex and thinks their partner is lousy in bed wouldn't marry them, would they? So it really works out for everyone - Christians have no experience to compare it to, so they're happy when they finally get married and get laid, pre-marital sex people do compare partners, so they marry someone who they like in bed.
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Sex tends to blind one to the flaws in the partner, in addition to all the inherent risks to self and potential babies. It's a HUGE deal.
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Nah, people have been doing it forever, it's not a big deal unless you're not getting any. And unless you're doing it on a bed of nails, condoms and birth control should be fine. As for blinding people to the flaws in the partner...even if the sex is
really good, you're still gonna pick up on the flaws. Besides, lots of people are blinded to their partner's flaws because they're deeply in love or because their partner is really rich/attractive/funny or something.
LOL @ hirako....i wonder if anal/oral sex counts for christians?