| Chrism...
I hope I didn't hurt anyone's feelings by that statement. It was not my intention. The process was not all positive for my D either. A year ago, she would not have predicted that she would be a Voice major now at UM. She wanted MT, "do or die." But with some rejection and some acceptance in the process, she came to choose UM as the best place to build the skills she wanted, even though it meant turning down the MT degree she thought she HAD to have. I know she was lucky to at least have choices (MT or Voice) , even though they weren't the choices she wanted in the beginning. But I do believe the process brings growth in some form or another. We didn't have to face no acceptances at all. So I cannot totally relate to that scenario. But I do believe with all disappointments in life, they can allow us to grow, take a deeper look at our goals, and either reaffirm our commitment to try again, or take a right or left turn down another road.
Hope I didn't offend again. |