Sally (and other parents that may be in a similar situation)
S's counselor called his college and they didn't seem to care about the college classes (see previous post). Since the classes were above and beyond the high school requirements necessary for admission they did not see it as an issue. They were concerned that he finish all prerequisite courses. They were also very concerned about his mental health and said he could take a semester or a year off before starting.
Wow--we are so pleased with the quality of this school! We feel they are giving him every opportunity to be successful and are making sure he is mentally ready to attend. It is very comforting to know that we do not have to push him and that if he is not 100% he still has options.
Lesson learned--if your S or D is in a similar situation call the schools before you make any decisions--find the one that is the most interested in what is best for your child, that is the best place for them.