Deerhotch, Harvard is my first choice, but I obviously there are four or five other very good fits that would perhaps serve me equally well after college.
$65k of additional debt is a problem. Of course I can always imagine I won't have a hard time paying it off

. All jokes aside, college student loan payments do not start until after graduation in 2016... it's the Prep school that's a problem. A personal loan, with assistance from my parents, is the most viable option. Unfortunately, my father is NOT convinced at all about PG, so he will not be paying for it, something he could do.