| Sorry to hear that. I'm sure it will get better once the first years get beyond the "thrill" of drinking till they puke. Have you looked into some clubs? For example, I know there's a swing dancing club -- students every week go in a big mob to a club where there's swing music and dance. Have you thought about joining the staff or a publication or a performing group of some sort? It may be a place made up of communities more than community. There was a post on another forum by someone at an Ivy with a similar complaint, that the first year social life was built around binge drinking. One idea I had for him was to get involved in something like CAVA. |