This kid needs a wake up call, perhaps an intervention. I would attempt an open and honest dialogue first, to review the house rules.
If tht doesn't work, I would kindly ask him/her to leave with escort out of my home like I would ANY belligerent adult who came into my house and acted that way.
My kids would not be welcomed into my home if they treated my wife with any disrespect. If you want to be an adult, then out of my house you go, get a job, live on your own, and make your own rules if you you can't follow ours. Its been that way from day 1, and they know they always have the option to leave.
None of this 'continue to pay for tuition?' NO way. she's on her own until she figures it out. You have to be ready and open to therapy; or hit rock bottom, or it doesn't work.