Like cobrat I was a bit bemused by the idea of these women's studies students pursuing the dekes, but who knows? right?
"I got raped because I had to walk in a bad neighborhood because I can't afford to live anywhere else" is a little different from "I got raped because I HAD to attend the XYZ fraternity party." NOT blaming the victim, to be clear ... but your analogy doesn't quite hold here.
confused.. are we blaming the woman who "Had to attend the XYZ fraternity party"? or not? Are young woman supposed to understand that certain fraternity parties may include rape? And act appropriately on that knowledge?