Kellster:
I've recommended this book before, but it's worth listing it again. The Directory of Theatre Training Programs, 9th edition, lists every university theatre program in the country, with brief descriptions and contact information. It's a good place to start:
http://dorsettheatrefestival.com/htm...ning_book.html
As for how to discriminate among programs, you can look at which schools participate in the Kennedy Center American College Theater Festival. You can find links at:
http://www.kcactf.org/
Each region's website is different, but you can find good information everywhere.
Good luck!