| Milkdud-
Read Andale's post 5 more times. I think he/she hit the nail on the head.
I've been at 4 different schools in the past five years, going from my local public school to a private school then to a boarding school and now college. I still remember the first transition-- it was so difficult! The second one was less painful, and the third one to college was a piece of cake.
I'm assuming moving to college has been the first big transition you've had to make, and it can be very, very difficult. Sure, some kids appear to have handled it seamlessly, but rest assured, there are plenty of other students at UVM who are feeling the exact same way you are. Don't worry about it, it will just take some time.
Now, on the other hand, I'm not saying you shouldn't transfer, you seem to have some good reasons. Again, read Andale's post.
Take care |