| It's just not defining the way it seems to be in other schools. My closest friends happened to have been in my sorority, and these have become lifelong friendships, but there's no reason that I couldn't have been equally as friendly with girls outside my house, or girls who weren't Greek. No one really cares! Why would they? It's not like you're signing some kind of exclusivity contract. It's really like any other club - I'm not interested in ice hockey or sailing, so the fact that there are people who are on ice hockey teams or sailing clubs doesn't affect me one way or the other. They're happy, I'm happy. It's all good. I don't know why people react so strongly to Greek presence, frankly. Do what you want to do; you'll have a great time at NU either way, really. |