| Thanks for all of the responses! I feel better that we are not alone, but it still sounds like there will be some stretching to do. I was also told by the HS counselor to fill out everything you have the time and energy to do because you never know. All we can do is try, right? This topic probably merits a separate thread especially for new folks who may not realize that talent alone will not get you into the schools that you want. I think this is a common misconception. Especially for kids, like mine, who are middle of the road in academics. I think some people give our kids a false impression of what it really takes to be accepted into university regardless of how talented you are. I have started having some very frank conversations with my S and D about what reality holds for us. I am not going to disallow them to audition for their "stretch" schools because I think the experience is valuable but they understand that even if accepted, unless there is substantial awards or loans, they simply won't be able to attend. |