You might wanna start with finding out what makes you happy in life.
That's the point of this thread, I'm afraid
Thank you both, though.
I have no idea what everyone else does. It seems like they mostly follow your guess-and-shoot method but I was wondering if there was anything else. It's frustrating having tried out tens of different things in wildly different areas and having nothing fit so I apologize for being a little disgruntled with the 'join clubs' attitude.
Maybe it's ennui, who knows?