juliusthemonkey

i also visited both amherst and harvard and found that the food was equally horrible at each.


this thread has stopped being helpful.

juliusthemonkey

i also have made a decision.

pmyen

Good luck Julius. I'm glad you visited both places. I'm sure you will have a terrific experience wherever you choose to go.

On this general topic, I found this article from the Globe. It is a little old so things may have changed. Harvard is a great university and Harvard is Harvard, but.......

Student life at Harvard lags peer schools, poll finds - The Boston Globe

piccolojunior

Why me? I only posted once for the lulz.

hpg90

What'd you decide?

juliusthemonkey

to never trust college confidential for advice again :-/

pmyen

Julius,
Like all sources, you should verify. I think most of the advice proffered was well-intentioned but not always well-informed. Definitely biased. And anonymous. You need to use some discernment and you also need to evaluate the information that is specific for you. I would NEVER depend upon this site as a sole source (or even a major source); however, I think there are valuable kernels, which only you, or other readers, can decide whether they are applicable to your/their particular situation.

I think talking with current students, particularly those who know you personally as well as those interested in your areas of interest (I would include academics, sports, extracurriculars) is a good place to start. Teachers, alumni, even parents may be helpful in sorting out pros and cons. Visiting the college, staying overnight is important if economically feasible (which I am glad you did). In some cases, meeting with profs, if they are available can be helpful. I think you went about the whole process wisely and open-mindedly, and you should be commended for it. I think you were looking for the best possible educational experience for yourself while weighing multiple factors. In the end, you came to a decision. Now make the most of your opportunity (actually privilege) and enjoy it as well!

I think it is fine to keep your final decision private. It really is not relevant except for those that may just be curious. I think your question, sparked some discussion which may have been somewhat useful for others even if it didn't help you all that much.

juliusthemonkey

haha thanks pymen--

i guess by logging onto this site i wasnt expecting to find any new information i dont already know, or new information that i even particularly trust. i guess i was hoping someone had an answer to this question. in a way i almost wish most people had said "GO TO HARVARD ARE YOU CRAZY" or "AMHERST HAS FAR SUPERIOR EDUCATION, AT HARVARD ALL THE CLASSES HAVE 329879738434 PEOPLE ADN THE PROFESSORS HATE YOU". although clearly answers like that are no more subjective than the replies i got on this thread.

i guess waht ive learned form all this is that no matter what i do, people will think i made the wrong choice. if i turn down harvard there will always be people wondering why i did it, but if i turn down amherst there will always be people who will judge me for sacrificing what is probably a higher quality of education for the label of all labels.

id prefer to keep my decision private, but just as a note to future posters on college confidential: the answers aren't here. eventually, you will have to make a decision yourself.

madville

FWIW, there is no bad choice. DS just made his decision between Amherst & Williams. I have to commend both admission offices for their personal attention and professionalism. It isn't important what others will think, it's important what you think and feel. The advice given to my S was pick one and move on. Don't look back or wonder what would have been. Focus on what you determine to be what appeals to you and don't magnify the negatives. Given the fact that you have been selected to 2 very well regarded and selective schools, you have what it takes to succeed in both environments, and both have the necessary resources to make your experiences memorable for a lifetime.

Our Williams tour guide was rejected from her Ivy choices. I would have never known, had we not spent so much time with her (about 2 hrs). Her enthusiasm and love of Williams was infectious and she is studying abroad at Oxford next year. Needless to say the fact that she didn't go Ivy affected her attitude nor her tremendous opportunities.

This is a tremendous forum, but as Pymen has noted you have to be savvy enough to "eat the meat and throw away the bones."
Good luck with your decision, and do keep us posted.

P.S.
By the way DS chose AMHERST!!!!

pmyen

Julius,
Good for you. Time to move on. Don't second guess yourself anymore. I think going on CC, you will probably get strong opnions that tend to crytallize suggestions in terms of black and white. It is partlly due to the format of an internet thread. Difficult to give a balanced, detailed, and nuanced view by the very nature of the medium coupled with what I wrote earlier. Also, most people who choose to respond will almost invariably have a strong opinion (At least strong enough to spend a few moments to type out a reply).

I also want to point out that Harvard may offer the superior education and social life for some students. It really depends upon what the student is looking for. Moreover, prestige is not the sole (or even primary) determinant for some students who decide to attend there, contrary to opinions on CC. Prestige is a reality but not necessarily a main factor.

Harvard and Amherst are different in a number of signficant ways which generates substantive factors for the student to consider. The fact it took you took almost the whole month to decide reflects the distinctive strangths of each school.

Whatever car you decided to drive out of the lot, I think you kicked the tires and looked under the hood, and maybe even took a short test drive. You should feel very positive about how you made an important life decision. This has been a valuable lesson, and how you arrived at it, will serve you well when you reach other forks in the road. You may want to reflect on the processs (not the choice) in the future, as how you handled it is something you also should be proud of, in addition to your h.s. accomplishments.

MeasureYourself

Both great schools. If you want to go to a phd program, Amherst will get you in anywhere becauseof hteprofessors and advisors, however, during your undergraduate years you will not have th research opportunities some Harvard students will get. For law and med school, you can't go wrong at either

andyman344

I think you have many research opportunities at Amherst, esp. because there are only undergrads, so they get all the attention, where as at Harvard, grad students get a lot often.