Preppy?

enfall2004 · 10-23-2009, 03:30 PM

Is Colby really preppy? Looks like a good academic fit for my son, but he is more comfortable with working class kids than the upper middle class ones at his high school. He enjoys outdoorsy activities, which is what attracted him to Colby. Any advice about how a kid without a lot of money would do socially would be appreciated.

cadence76 · 10-23-2009, 04:24 PM

Hi! I'm a mom of a Colby first-year, who is definitely not preppy and does not have $$$ (she's there thanks to terrific aid/scholarships), and she is happy as the proverbial clam. She says that there are a fair number of kids from prep schools, but that she doesn't feel that they're the traditional stuck-up, moneybags, uber-label-conscious stereotype. What she mostly reports is how incredibly friendly everyone is! Colby puts a lot of emphasis on some values (academics, outdoor activity, community service, eco-awareness) that I think may discourage the "preppy" kid who's just looking to spend four years with other rich, beautiful people and going to parties. And, please, before people write angry posts defending prep-school kids, I KNOW--that's a denigrating stereotype--that's my point. The kids at Colby--prep or not-- are made of kinder, smarter, deeper stuff. Definitely it's worth a close look for your son!

newport28 · 10-24-2009, 11:42 AM

Ditto...I could not agree more with the above statement. As a parent of a 1st year student it gives us great comfort that our child is absolutely in love with Colby and it's students from ALL of their various backgrounds. All conversations end with how lucky our child feels to have been accepted and that we have the ability to send her to this inspired institution! Could a parent ask for more!?

cadence76 · 10-24-2009, 05:59 PM

newport28--so glad things are good for your D as well! I remember when she was so unsure after admitted students day. Guess all that CC advice worked out well! And, yes, we feel like incredibly lucky parents, especially when we talk to friends whose kids are struggling and unhappy with first semester at other schools. Whew!

mountains · 10-24-2009, 08:39 PM

And, as a parent of a very happy soph, I'm so glad things are working out well for your Ds. When we visited for Parents' Weekend, my father-in-law talked with a lot of freshmen parents, and he said, "You know what's interesting? Whenever I ask the parents if their kids like it here, they all reply, they love it. Not they like it, but love it!" Says it all.

thinker88 · 10-26-2009, 04:05 PM

All of the replies so long have been by parents, so here's the student opinion:

First, the term 'preppy' has become somewhat ambiguous, so I will address it with two answers.

1. If by preppy, you are referring to the way that people dress, than I would say that yes, Colby does have more students that dress 'preppy' than non-LACs. That being said, that is the way that a lot of NE kids dress and there certainly are plenty of kids who still go the 'jeans and a t-shirt' route.

2. If you are referring to an attitude, then I would say that Colby is not very preppy. The people here are extremely friendly and outgoing. That also being said, I have never actually met a group of people (one here and there, but never a lot in one place), that were so stuck up as to embody the phrase 'preppy', and yet the phrase persists...

So basically, if you have any fears about your son fitting in, I would discard them. So long he is friendly and open himself, he will fit right in.

wumple · 11-14-2009, 11:03 PM

Here's another student opinion...

Sure there are a lot of kids that dress 'preppy' and come from an upper-middle class background, but there are also plenty of kids that go the jeans and t-shirt route. However, the way a person dresses at Colby doesn't make a difference at all...like everyone else said, Colby students tend to be extremely friendly and inclusive. The amount of money a person has definitely does not affect their social options!