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12-17-2008, 08:33 PM
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#1 | | New Member
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| Best advice I (MIT acceptee) can give
I got into MIT EA. Woo hoo!! Wanna know my secret? The end-all be-all tip that will guarantee your success on any college app ever? Here it is:
STOP and START
STOP playing the college game. Really, people! You can't spend your high school years curled up with an SAT prep book and a private tutor hunched over your shoulder just trying to eek out a few more points. Furthermore, you can't spend every waking hour studying for classes that you aren't interested in and you took just because they would "look good." Finally, and believe me, this is the killer, if someone asks you why you do an extra-curricular and your answer includes "it looks good for college" QUIT IT. Colleges see right through that. Oh, and definitely stop worrying about, obsessing over, and focusing on the absolute DRIVEL that is College Confidential. You will not be accepted to college based on anyone else's test scores. It is on you.
START something. Anything. Find something (or two, or three, or seven things) your really love and do them because you love them. If you love the harmonica, play it. But don't stop there. Form a club or a band or take lessons or write a book about it. Chase down your passions and make your life your own. High school is one the only times you will ever have where you can, say, start an Improv Comedy troupe in a week and build it into a lasting legacy or become the Drum Major of the marching band on a whim only to discover that waving your arms is a thrill. In school: take the hardest classes you can in the areas that interest you. School is about learning, not college, and you will not learn unless you want to. As simple as that sounds, I have seen people get destroyed by AP classes and PSEO that they took because it would "look good." Don't do it. Finally, get off the computer right now and go outside. Even if it is dark or cold or wet. Just go out and sit for a little while. Breath the air, look around and be happy. When there is so much beauty out there, getting into "HYPSM" doesn't seem so important, does it?
-Jack W.
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12-17-2008, 09:39 PM
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#2 | | Member
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Outstanding post Jack! Thank you!
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12-17-2008, 09:46 PM
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Wow... you seem to be describing me!!! I have devoted 3 weeks or more to study for the SAT. My head is about to explode!!!!!! I am glad I am free in a few days
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12-17-2008, 09:48 PM
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#4 | | Junior Member
Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: MD---->University of Pennsylvania '13
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Soemthing else important is to curb your expectations. Apply to REASONABLE schools.
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12-17-2008, 09:48 PM
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#5 | | Senior Member
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Just one question, how do you as a new admit have a clue what got you in? Have you called the adcom and had them tell you?
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12-17-2008, 10:07 PM
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#6 | | Senior Member
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Well, I started my own company because I was really passionate about the hobby that I had and it worked out very very well. I beat a competitor friend of mine who received 800 math on the SAT, better GPA, equivalent AP classes than me when both of us applied RD to MIT.
I was wait listed at MIT tho, he got rejected from MIT and is attending Cornell. I'm at Hopkins.
Ultimately, the tipping factor is what you are passionate about. I wrote my essay on my trip to meeting a Chinese business developer in China. I described in depth the 12 hrs flight, how during the flight I furiously vomited out ideas. With a pencil and paper unleashed my heart and soul into drawing my design plan and sketching out in detail the schematics of my products that I want created. This was in preparation with the meeting that was scheduled between me and the director of operations. It was pretty insane
In conclusion, yes, It is easy to tell people to start something. Yes it does help to a certain extent. I does take a lot more than just creating your own club. It takes that and good everything else.
Last edited by Phead128; 12-17-2008 at 10:17 PM.
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12-17-2008, 10:18 PM
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#7 | | Junior Member
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"Oh, and definitely stop worrying about, obsessing over, and focusing on the absolute DRIVEL that is College Confidential."
Doesn't this fall into the "All Cretans are liars" category?
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12-17-2008, 10:27 PM
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#8 | | Senior Member
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I love the irony when people on CC tell you not to read CC.
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12-17-2008, 10:29 PM
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hmom5: The OP was an EA applicant. They found out a few days ago of their decisions.
Great advice! I second the apply to reasonable places: it's cool to have reaches, but have actual safeties, and matches!
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12-17-2008, 10:29 PM
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#10 | | Member
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That's easy for you to say, you got accepted into MIT.
Great advice though!
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12-17-2008, 10:32 PM
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#11 | | Member
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haha yeah the "M" in HYPSM does stand for MIT. Also the "drivel" you speak of is basically the advice that CC users have been giving for years
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12-17-2008, 10:48 PM
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#12 | | Junior Member
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Mraw, Jack, Mraw.
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12-17-2008, 10:53 PM
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#13 | | New Member
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"I love the irony when people on CC tell you not to read CC."
Thanks for the heartwarming responses ;-) I posted (gulp...) one in the "chances" thread a while back, but after reading more and more of them, it just became depressing. There are users out there who claim to work 60 hr weeks and captain 5 varsity sports all while maintaining a 5.0 GPA and other users who will tell that one that Harvard is a "reach." Just don't worry about it! Like I said, no one gets accepted (or denied) based on the other kids' incredible stats. It is on you.
I do want to be clear, though, that I am totally psyched about MIT (and I do realize what the M in HYPSM is :-P) I can never be sure what the deciding factor was, but I hope it wasn't one thing at all. I hope that it was that, in the end, I stuck to my advice. You should too.
For those of you who didn't make it, it is OK. Ansel Adams could take a museum worthy shot with a disposable camera - so can you make the most out of wherever you end up. College gives back what you put into it. Any college. If you work hard enough, you can do great things anywhere.
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12-17-2008, 10:55 PM
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#14 | | Senior Member
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I am aware he knows his decision, my question is how he knows what got him in. For all we know he's a one legged, URM, legacy, 4 sport athlete from Alaska. He hasn't set foot on MIT's campus as a student and he's going to tell us how to get in?
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12-17-2008, 10:57 PM
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#15 | | Member
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Congrats jw.
Last edited by Chedva; 12-18-2008 at 08:09 AM.
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