Hey Buddy .... tough it out, its good preparation for "life'
When I was in college I was in an awful dorm at Syracuse University. All guys dorm and on the edge of campus, across the street from a ghetto... a real ghetto. Many guys rushed fraternities to meet people, and more importantly women.... I tried for one night .. wasnt my bag. Many freshmen transferred that year as a result of our non-social living arrangements.
I suggest getting out of the dorms, asap.... they are brutal. Having a roomate is brutal enough .. sharing a bathroom with 30 other people is Guantanamo. I suggest getting a job at a bar or restaurant...or somewhere else somewhat social where you will interact with people you are interested in.
I used to do this in my twenties and thirties when I moved to a new city, pick up a shift as a bartender 1 or 2 nights a week, even though I didnt need the money. Some of those people are still close friends of mine 15 years later.
By my sophmore year at Syracuse I had met 4 guys that are still very close to me today and ... tough it out, make some small changes to increase your social interaction .. with people you are interested in. All this cool guy, cool girl crap goes away soon .. hang in there !