rebel_by_choice

i think i'm bisexual, but i'm not sure. i have a masculine demeanor though, so people can't usually tell. i got asked out by a guy once and i said yes but nothing weird happened. still, my dad didn't speak to me for like a month but i don't really care. it's not like i can change my sexual orientation (i really don't believe i can). right now, i'm pursuing a girl and i think she might be "the one" but that's how it always is. i'm not sure if i'm ever gonna marry. i'm attracted to certain types of guys, certain types of girls. the more prominent examples: matt long (as jack on jack & bobby) and kristin kreuk (the girl from smallville).

MzLover3

You're on the wrong board.

Try www.govteen.com

sarorah

This is the cafe, he could talk about anything he wants to talk about.

Blackdream

take human sexuality once you are in college.

if you are NOT sexually attracted to a same-sex member you are not homosexual.

the definition of masculinaity and feminity is most evident in American society and almost non-existent in some society (Chinese for example). One can possess both traits (playing with sniper rifle and show a lot of love to kitten and little kids), that is called andronous (sp).

MzLover3

androgynous

joev

I love sniper rifles and little babies/puppies/kittens. This has nothing to do with sexual orientation. I think everyone likes babies and puppies, and most people like kittens.

Blackdream

i was trying to cite examples about mascualinty and feminity. Ok, I know guys who does weight training and have some very typically feminine traits like helping girls with their eye brows.

joev

I know that I was just yanking your chain. But, the issue of bisexuality is a not often discussed one. I don't know any bi dudes, but I know numerous bi chicks. I understand that "bi-ness" amongst chicks is considered way cool by many people (raises hand to join in agreement) but the same thing amongst dudes is considered gross and totally not cool. Is this just because dudes are threatened by bi-dudes, or are bi-dudes just keeping it closeted as to not be beaten up by their friends?

Blackdream

socially it's COOL to have girls to show biness to each other, and there is this social conditioning theory, when girls get rewarded for performing bi-acts (two girls kiss, for example), they may feel good toward their action.

joev

There might be a reason why there is not a "Guys Gone Wild" video series with dudes making out. LOL

knightmare

It's because we live in a very male centric society. Bisexualness in females is socially acceptable because males find such attractive...

poison.ivy

LOL... true.

Awhile back, I used to be very insecure with my sexuality... I used to have bisexual tenedencies and I tried my best to rid them.

But I can't and I accept that. I'm naturally attracted to some types of girls, but I would never consider myself bisexual because I couldn't go farther than making out.... that's just me.

It's okay to feel the way you are... it's fully natural considering that your hormones are still running and that your sexual preferences are fully set yet. And if you do turn out to be bisexual... it's okay!

seth blue

Sigh, I'm never going to understand what makes people gay, lesbians, bisexuals, transexuals am I? The best thing to do if you ask me, is to keep your priorities "straight".

nahrafsfa

if you're a transsexual you'll know it

NoFX

I've never met a gay/bi peron in my life. So I don't really know much about this but I think some christians in my school just overeact WAY too much when they hear about gay/bi people. TOO much overreactions. In their stupid convo's you hear so much let downs, filthy words.. it's disgusting. i thought it was sin or something to swear. They are so strange.. don't like talking to them at all.. makes me kinda angry against christians.

I think it's all good if people are gay. It's your own life. Do whatever you want.