Crush on this guy in my math cls, what should I do??? - Page 2

Asian_Girl2009 · 07-04-2009, 09:24 PM

haha no he is not white..white guys are not my type. I think he is filiphino..I'm pretty sure he is..ahh!! I soo dont know how to approach him.

Asian_Girl2009 · 07-04-2009, 09:25 PM

he's kinda shy..I dont see him talk to ppl in cls..only with this one guy that sits next to him.

Pea · 07-04-2009, 10:48 PM

Just go up and talk to him, find some excuse. The thing is you don't know anything about him. Once you talk to him you might realize you don't like him after all. Also, once you talk it will ease the tension that you feel so you won't feel so anxious. Don't play any games, just enjoy whatever time you have with him. It sounds like you are ready to start dating. Put yourself out there, be open, and you'll find a relationship with someone, but maybe not this particular person.

Asian_Girl2009 · 07-05-2009, 01:04 AM

Okay..but the thing is it would be weird & awkward if I just come up to him and talk, I mean what if he doesn't even have a crush on me?? I'm soooo bad at starting convo's with guys!! especially guys that I like. Ugh..I really dont know...he doesn't seem that into me. I mean he haven't tried talking to me either.

schrizto · 07-05-2009, 03:55 AM

why are you still having class in july?

u§ername · 07-05-2009, 03:56 AM

summer school? summer semester in Uni?

schrizto · 07-05-2009, 04:06 AM

for some reason I feel a summer class would make it even more awkward.

JBVirtuoso · 07-05-2009, 09:31 AM

Why? Haven't you ever heard of summer love?

Pea · 07-05-2009, 11:46 AM

Yes, it will feel weird and awkward, so what? Then the next time you talk to someone you like it will feel easier. Don't expect too much from the encounter, it will just be a moment when you're talking to someone you like. He probably doesn't have a crush on you. Talking to him will help lend an air of realism to the whole thing.

Put yourself out there. Make an effort and you'll meet a lot of interesting people along the way. Don't have big expectations from any one encounter. Just be open and let things happen.

todpose · 07-05-2009, 01:28 PM

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Okay..but the thing is it would be weird & awkward if I just come up to him and talk, I mean what if he doesn't even have a crush on me?? ........... he doesn't seem that into me. I mean he haven't tried talking to me either.

You said he is shy, not talking to anyone beside a few people next to him. Are you really expecting him to talk to you some day? If he has a crush on you, then it will be even harder for him to do that first. You gotta make the first move!

Asian_Girl2009 · 07-05-2009, 02:17 PM

yeah..haha I forgot to mention that I am taking summer classes at SD City College. So yeah...if I do get together with him..it would be only a summer fling...haha.

osutee16 · 07-05-2009, 05:54 PM

talk to him....be ureself....dont flirt, just approach him, theres totally nothing wrong with saying hello first.
and im sure all those times he was looking at chu aint fo nothing.....and please dont brush ur boobies against him, trust me...boys know that trick and what they think that u a hoe...lol
goodluck

Asian_Girl2009 · 07-05-2009, 07:53 PM

haha eww that is like so disgusting..I don't do that kind of stuff..im not like "other girls" if you know what I mean, lol.

osutee16 · 07-06-2009, 05:37 PM

yes well, just talk to him, u'll be suprised he likes you..and was probably talking to that girl about you....
it wont hurt sitting next to him next class, but dont if it'll make u seem desperate like...
okay I need to stop talking now....JUST TALK TO THE DUDE....
if he dont like you, then he aint worth you...
thats the way I see things girl..

07PETKO · 07-07-2009, 01:31 AM

This thread is failing miserably. Look, everything you need to know about all this relationship drama, high school or otherwise, can be summed up in one idea. This one's free, so pay attention. I'm sure this will be hard for you, but talk to the guy; one of two things will happen. Either:

A) He digs you too. Yay, you win.
B) He's not feeling it, and you don't get together with him. Realize that not being with him is exactly where you are now.

Therefore, you either win or draw. You can't lose. This is especially true since you apparently don't even know this guy. You're not even running the risk of making a friendship awkward because you really aren't even friends in the first place. You have nothing at all to lose, so suck it up and go do it.