jimbob1225

yeah that's disconcerting, taekwondo. but be happy: they kept blabbing about how hot mixed asians are because they thought you were one, and they were just trying to butter you up because they liked you. the sad part is that they assumed from your features that you were half-asian, but you can't blame them for that really. who knows? they might not have been like "oh he's hot, he can't be full asian." they might have just have found you hot but also assumed you were half-white just by looking at you.

underman

just found this forum, and i think i am really late to post anything,well i have a problem myself,i met this gurl and ive taking her out i think just about once. but we usually have dinner at the school caff. i really like this gurl but am having a hard time figuring out if she feels the same way. for example anytime i make plans to take her out she always comes up with some excuss that usually doesnt make sense or she acts as thou she forgot totally about it. but when i see her at dinner in the school caf and i walk her back to her room she always just keeps holding me me puting her hands into my pockets and holding me closer to herself. sometimes she ignores my calls or txt. so i really dont knw where i stand.

dreakol

^ditch her and move on.

uyulove

Well maybe they just preferred mixed facial types. It's their preference, who cares? They think you are hot, it's better than thinking you are ugly or something. ROFL.
And I gotta admit, usually mixed people are pretty darn hot... or least around where I lived (there were tons of them) even if their parents both looked like... yeah. I don't know where their wonderful genes came from but it happens.
Of course there are just totally hot asian/asian guys.... I won't start naming celebs or something because there's too many. hahaha.

leeznon

I'm half Asian and the worlds hottest person... just kidding... well not really

^_^

Swl2009

Hmm, not sure if I'm alone on this one... but talking to girls sometimes feels like one big interrogation... especially if you're trying to build rapport, is there any way to get around it if they just don't reciprocate your feelings/are disinterested? Or do you just chalk it up as a loss and move on?

TheyCallMeCC

^in general, if the girl is disinterested, u can't force her into being interested. most likely, she isn't the girl for u, & u have to move on. there are exceptions, but those are rare

p.s. note to all guys out there:if the girl seems to be ignoring u, then guess what? SHE'S NOT INTERESTED. there's no point in thinking that she *may* regain interest, so move the hell on. we only do the ignoring thing, because we feel bad & don't want to hurt your feelings.