I'm having problems with some of my housemates...there's tension and conflict and people acting rudely and immaturely etc. One of them also basically told me to move out, and well, I don't like conflict and feel like this isn't something that will ever be resolved, so I'm moving out. It sucks because I love my roommate and one of my other housemates, and I don't want to leave them, but I want to live in peace. Ugh.
Does everyone in the house think that you should move out? If its just 1 person who thinks you should move out, then it seems that either u settle your **** or they should move out. But if everyone hates you there then its probably better if you move out and find other people who like to be around you instead.
Only the one really thinks I should move out, but I wanted to move out even before she told me to move out. I don't deal with people's crap, and I lived in a house that was full of tension/conflict/drama last year, and it sucked, and I'm not about to deal with it again. My roommate and one of my other housemates actively don't want me to move out, and the other 2 girls really don't care.
well if you can find others to live with where you can enjoy your stay then move if you feel like. It seems like 2 of your housemates enjoy you being there and another 2 just dont want to get caught up in all the drama. You could either try being really confrontational to her and just tell her to leave you alone or i guess you could just move to feel better. Usually in huge houses with 5 or more people, there will always be arguments back and forth, its just the things that happen. You just have to love to live there enough that you can get through all the small fights.
