"another thing, in the OR/FE and AM requirements in the SEAS bulletin, it says we need to "choose one course" for the Chem requirement - does that mean we can stop at 1403, or do we have to take 1403 and 1404?"
either chem 1403 first sem, or chem 1404 second sem will do,
I would not worry about lit hum until 2nd year, take chem and your pre-prof course first year instead of lit hum, lit hum. Also after being at columbia you might decide to do major cultures (easier) or CC (possibly more interesting, definitely more political) instead of lit hum. everyone in seas finishes this requirement second year, i don't know of anyone who did it first year.
also starting at calc II or calc III, is better than honors math, because the workload is probably lighter, the curve is probably better and the subject material is less pure and thus more applicable to or/fe. honors math is filled with the crazy, over-achieving, socially inept, incredibly smart pure math and physics majors of the college

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