College Discussion

Go Back   College Discussion > College Admissions and Search > Ivy League > Harvard University

 
Welcome to College Discussion at College Confidential, the Web's leading discussion forum for college admissions, financial aid, SAT prep, and much more! You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, etc. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact us.
   College Confidential is dedicated to providing the best free college admissions information available on the Web, through our many articles and this discussion forum.

This welcome message goes away when you register and log in!
Discussion Menu
Discussion Home
Help & Rules
Latest Posts
NEW! College Visits
NEW! Stats Profiles
Top Forums
College Search
College Admissions
Financial Aid
SAT/ACT
Parents
Colleges
Ivy League
Main CC Site
College Confidential
College Search
College Admissions
Paying for College
Sponsors
Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 05-11-2008, 12:37 AM   #1
New Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 4
Big Mistake?

I chose Harvard over Stanford.
Everything thinks I'm happy with my decision.
I should be, but instead I can't stop worrying.
Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life?
justpeachy is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 12:40 AM   #2
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 46
Oh please. Get a grip. People are dying all over the world. Ur pathetic!
bigman is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 12:44 AM   #3
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 1,306
I agree, stop worrying. I'm sure your nervous about going off to college and starting a new chapter in your life, but don't go overboard with this. Relax and enjoy Cambridge
guitars101 is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 12:56 AM   #4
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Maryland/ Cambridge, Ma
Posts: 187
No way! Harvard is amazing! My last two years here have been some of the best of my life, and I wouldn't trade it for anywhere else.
I know there is a lot of post-deciding anxiety (I had it too when I had to make a choice between some other great options), but once you get here, and start integrating yourself into the community, I'm sure you will find your place here too and learn to love it.
muyloca57 is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 01:16 AM   #5
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 1,306
My son can't wait to go to Harvard. Relax and stop it!
guitars101 is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 01:17 AM   #6
Bay
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 1,239
Quote:
Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life?
If this is the biggest mistake of your life, then you lead an incredibly charmed life.

I put my money on you loving it at Harvard. Best of luck to you!
Bay is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 01:20 AM   #7
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: NY ---> Outer Haven, MA 2012
Posts: 2,427
Well just remember that Biggie > 2Pac applies when comparing Harvard to Stanford.
piccolojunior is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 11:29 AM   #8
Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: NoVA ->Cambridge, MA
Posts: 693
Post-decision anxiety, heh. I'm in your position, justpeachy. I bet we'll forget about it once September rolls around.
chronicidal is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 12:49 PM   #9
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 1,821
It's typical - D1 went through buyer's remorse too, and was very happy from the start. H and S have a very different feel, but there's no way anyone could make a big mistake choosing either.
gadad is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 01:34 PM   #10
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 1,263
Only reasons why you should regret your decision:
1.) You hate having four distinct seasons.
2.) You hate big cities.
3.) You love football/sports.
4.) You prefer Stanford's core to Harvard's.
5.) You prefer Stanford's housing assignment procedure to Harvard's.
6.) You wanted to major in computer science or engineering. (From what I have heard, majoring in these fields at Harvard is much more tedious.)
Newjack88 is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 05:36 PM   #11
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 131
good luck and just stop it- i had to conform to the first 2 posts lol. If you don't like it you can transfer.
ChaoticOrder is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 07:03 PM   #12
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: somewhere in the caribbean ->>>>PENN '12
Posts: 150
i feel the exact same way as you do. except i chose penn over stanford instead of harvard so im probably feeling much more nervous. but i think (and hope) that we're both gonna love it wherever we go
andy_g is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 07:06 PM   #13
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: new joisy
Posts: 3,485
haha whats ur problem stop rubbing it in other peoples faces!!
Narcissa is offline  
Old 05-11-2008, 07:55 PM   #14
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 77
dont feel sad! i wish i could be going to harvard! that is the ultimate academic dream!
iamtooperfect is offline  
Old 05-12-2008, 12:20 PM   #15
New Member
 
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 10
I totally understand your feeling. Last year my daughter is in your position. She chose Harvard over a few other top universities. It was a very hard decision. It was almost no way for her to make a such decision. She pushed the button in very last minutes with a feeling of lost because she had to turn down a few best colleges in the world. After almost a year at Harvard, she is NO regret the decision she made. She is falling in love with Harvard. She believed that she made the best decision in her life to attend Harvard.

Best wishes to your!
WoodsGreen is offline  
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools

 


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:13 AM.


Copyright 2001-2008, CollegeConfidential.com, Inc., All Rights Reserved
SEO by vBSEO 3.1.0