My ECs :
Student council (ton of hours dedicated to this so far: around 30 hours)
Compassion in Action (service club: <10 hours)
National arts honors society: around 30 hours
Math honors society: <5 hours
I also work 3 hours every tue wed and thurs and sometimes 2 hours on Saturday morning
On the other issue - do you guys have depressed friends? I've have some friends who are so mentally ill. they're not really my school friends, but my camp friends. I don't know their school so I can't inform their school. but anyway it's scary.